Premature Ejaculation - Talk to your Partner

Many couples do not discuss Premature Ejaculation with each other and, ultimately, there can be a breakdown of intimacy between the partners. To avoid any problems in your relationship, it is best to deal with your condition face-to-face. Remember, you’re not the only one who can be affected by PE.

You may be worried about discussing PE with your partner, but remember:

1. Your partner may very well be aware that something is wrong, and is simply too nervous to discuss it with you directly
2. Your partner loves you and cares about you, they want you to be satisfied and happy

Here are a few conversation starters to begin a dialogue with your partner about your condition:

• “I want to discuss what’s been happening in our sex life recently.”
• “You may have noticed that I haven’t been acting like myself recently.”
• “You know I love you, and I don’t want you to think that you’re doing something that’s affecting our sex life.”
• “I’ve been really stressed/depressed lately, and it’s affecting my sexual desires.”

If you’re still having trouble discussing your PE, try approaching the issue specifically and factually. You may find it easier to discuss your problems when doing so in a neutral, scientific fashion. These are only suggestions. You know your partner better than anyone else and you know how best to communicate with her. Just remember that you’re doing this to find a treatment, which will improve your sex life and your overall relationship.